Why not bring a vibe into the bedroom aswell?

A couple of women I've been with said their former partners saw it as a 'rival' in the bedroom instead of just way of pleasuring her (which made it difficult for her to enjoy herself in front of him while using it); whereas I'd rather I saw my woman writhe in pleasure even if she wanted to use toys to feel like that.

I don't see it as "vs." I think you'd get the best fun for all concerned if you think of it as "&" :)