You may not be aware of it, but had you been caught having consensual sex with another adult male in North Carolina, both you and he would have become registered sex offenders prior to the Supreme Court's Texas v. Lawrence decision. Many of those men are still listed despite the law under which they were convicted having been declared unconstitutional. so by your very premise, all gay men must be perverts because until "Lawrence", they were sex offenders.

That is not to say that some of us aren't perverts. It is just to say that you need to find [a] better definition(s) of pervert to use. Some of the things I've done would curl your bone(s).

You apparently haven't been out very long, as the tone of your original post indicates a significant loathing of gay men, typical of the self-loathing that permeates our community. I hope you will think hard about:

a: who is being hurt by the things you see as perverted?

b: why you think they are perverted?

c: what do you do that others would think perverted?

When you have spent some time thinking about answers to these three questions, please go back and look at your original post in a new light.