Originally Posted by cm70874

And sex while someone is drunk, I see no problem with it. I have been trashed, shit-faced, and high all at the same time and I have had many offers for sex, from gay and straight men. The point I am making here is that I have turned down quite a few of these men, even in an altered state. I truly believe that even while intoxicated, we still have control of what and who we do. I think that these guys who wake up the next day and regret what they did, are only using the alcohol as justification for having a little fun. From the way I was raised, I believe the feeling of regret is a cop-out, only used when someone is embarassed by what they did, oppose to being remorseful. My mom always told me, if you regret something you have done, then you were never meant to do it.