First, I have to address the 10,000 registered sex offender thing in NC. I realize you are pointing it out as fact, but with the subject of this thread, it seems you are labeling these offenders as gay men. Honeslty, I know about the sex offender registry also, and majority are HETEROSEXUAL men, who have abused young girls.
My thing with the being touched while you are sleeping, if you can't control yourself when drinking or whatever the mind altering substances may be, then you are asking for something to happen. I am not saying that if you get drunk and pass out they you deserve to be assaulted, but everyone has to be their own watchdog.
And sex while someone is drunk, I see no problem with it. I have been trashed, shit-faced, and high all at the same time and I have had many offers for sex, from gay and straight men. The point I am making here is that I have turned down quite a few of these men, even in an altered state. I truly believe that even while intoxicated, we still have control of what and who we do. I think that these guys who wake up the next day and regret what they did, are only using the alcohol as justification for having a little fun. From the way I was raised, I believe the feeling of regret is a cop-out, only used when someone is embarassed by what they did, oppose to being remorseful. My mom always told me, if you regret something you have done, then you were never meant to do it. |