i suspect that to campy gays, having sex with other gay men is like running a 5-yard race. boring and pointless. they wanna test their skills, see if they can get the jock to give access to their genitals. plus many gay men just enjoy the dirty maliciousness of "turning" a straight man because the manipulation is fun to them. the funny part is its all fun and games to them til they get rejected and when the str8 friend doesn't respond to their 800 text messages and their world falls apart when they find out the guy has a girlfriend he's committed to. i just wanna slap em and tell em they have a better chance of curing cancer.