If you browse around many of the LPSG threads, you'll know many other men enjoy being blown as foreplay, but have gotta have that HOLE for the complete experience. I remember being very surprised that so many men out there, homo and hetero, weren't all that into being sucked off. (I do, and I've met many other homo men who do, but when I'm in the active mode, only fucking hole will do "it" best.) Hell, don't sweat it!