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Originally Posted by ManlyBanisters  As yes, now you mention income disparity is involved in the couples who've had issues with a better educated wife / less educated husband. The man / man dynamics of a gay relationship are certainly different from the woman / man dynamics of a straight relationship. I think that men probably do overcome more differences by concentrating on their sameness in a way that men and women can't (or won't?). |
in my own personal experience, i was laid off recently and since then my boyfriend has given me zero grief about paying a majority of the bills, rent, cable, food, groceries, etc.. he sees that i'm TRYING to find work and makes allowances for that. i've seen several black woman who, as soon as the money is gone, they're having an affair with a wealthy rapper or a college proffessor. leaving behind the boyfriend who helped her pay for the salon she owns and fathered her two children. "UH UH, I NEED A MAN WHO GONE PAY MY BILLS, GET MY HURR DID"
i wonder how black women would've felt if, during the underground railroad, black men had said "you're too slow, you're holding us back, i'ma go get me a white woman cuz they can afford cars. BYE BITCH!"