I've been to many doctors for help with being too tight and tearing. Honestly, doctors don't know a whole lot else to tell you than to use lubricant. I can't imagine a person not trying that before seeking help since its advertised all the time. Doctors that deliver babies tend to not understand how a person could be so tight since so many can push a baby through there.

Dolfette brought up vaginismus which could exacerbate the problem. Based on the OP's vaginal pics i can tell she has the same problem i have...a very tight opening that gets raw and possibly tears with sex making it very uncomfortable during and especially after sex. So then you hold off a few days in order to heal up and then when you have sex again it does it all over again.

I did create a post that had some suggestions in it that have helped us immensely. I don't think we need to get all crazy about seeing a doctor about it because i know of no gynecological diseases that would cause one to suddenly become tight or the symptoms of a particular problem is being tight. We aren't talking about bleeding or pain during intercourse where the cervix is located. We are talking about the type of discomfort when you swallow a pill thats way too large or it goes down sideways- its simply a structure that isnt stretching enough to allow for painless entry.

It really sucks to be built this way in general but its even worse to be paired with a girthy guy. It's a huge curse.

help!