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Originally Posted by justcurious80  you have to understand hoteltuesday, being 'gay' is about having emotional feelings for another man, and wanting to be in a relationship and spend time with another man. mutual masturbation between friends is a 'gay' act, but it doesnt make you gay. althought physical intimacy is part of loving a specific gender, Some guys like fooling around with penises but dont have emotional or physical attraction to the entire male itself. there are a lot of factors you could say where you would call urself 'gay'. and the whole percentage of gayness isn't exactly measurable.. you can't exactly buy a homo-mometer haha
there are many shades of gray in between the black and white colors that are straight and gay. sometimes its hard to place labels. |
I agree with your last two sentences but not with your overall message.
Being gay has to do with sexual feelings, plain and simple. It has to do with a man's SEXUAL attraction to another man. I have emotional feelings towards my good guy friends but those aren't feelings of lust or desire. By the same token, you could take the meanest SOB who hates the world and everyone in it but if he wants to have sex with other men he's gay. Emotional feelings don't tell the whole story.
The difficulty, as you've noted, is that there is a wide range of orientations between being "straight" and "gay". If you have a penis and enjoy sucking or jerking off another guy's penis that's a gay activity. However. it's possible to enjoy that and enjoy women sexually as well.
The guys who think just because they like to get their dick sucked by a man every now and then and that doesn't make it gay are completely fooling themselves.