you have to understand hoteltuesday, being 'gay' is about having emotional feelings for another man, and wanting to be in a relationship and spend time with another man. mutual masturbation between friends is a 'gay' act, but it doesnt make you gay. althought physical intimacy is part of loving a specific gender, Some guys like fooling around with penises but dont have emotional or physical attraction to the entire male itself. there are a lot of factors you could say where you would call urself 'gay'. and the whole percentage of gayness isn't exactly measurable.. you can't exactly buy a homo-mometer haha

there are many shades of gray in between the black and white colors that are straight and gay. sometimes its hard to place labels.