Great thread, Mme Rouge. I find the misogynistic trends in porn to be a complete turn-off too. Even if a woman asked me to disrespect her as part of a roleplay I would find it very difficult and distracting. As you pointed out, it seems to be a trend in several areas of modern culture, especially hip-hop/rap, where it's all "shorty" and "bitch" and "ho".

Some people seem to have forgotten that there is a distinction between mutually consented power plays and a contemptuous disrespect for the opposite gender.