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Originally Posted by mercurialbliss  I want to focus on this statement. Not because I want to pick on you, New End, but I see two trains of thought in this thread. There are women who insist on playing victim needlessly and it does get old after a while. However...
First thought: You're saying women complain about the treatment they receive from alpha males and they should expect that treatment. There are no victims.
Second thought: Phil Ayesho claims that American women are calling the shots and bully men into doing whatever it is they want. In other words, there are no alpha males left.
Does anyone else see the disparity or is it just me? |
I don't see the disparity the same way. It just seems like to different views of people's personal experience. The one guy sees the world as jocks versus nerds, where the girls gravitate towards the jocks who treat them like crap and the nerds would worship them if given a chance. I would imagine that he sides with the latter group and feels passed over. This might work in high school but as you get older, the nerds run the companies and make the money and women eventually gravitate towards security and stability over good hair.
Phil sees the world as Amazons versus eunuchs, in which women dominate and set the agenda. Phil lives on a different planet than the rest of us. But most likely he was in a relationship in which he feels the woman ruled the roost and he was powerless to get out.
What's common is that both groups see to blame women for their various misfortunes instead of examining their own actions and behaviors. For example, if the nerd is too shy to speak to a woman, how can she get to know him?
Btw, I'm not saying the nerd poster is in fact a nerd, just what his writing is suggesting.