David, you are pretty much right on. I used to be a nice guy once, until I woke up and realized that what women SAY they want and how to be treated is completely different than how they REALLY want to be treated. In other words, action speaks louder than words. Every girl will say she wants a nice guy, but they all say that while they date jerks.

Misogyny sucks certainly, but it's even more sad that it's biggest supports are in fact women.

edit: There is nothing wrong with calling someone a slut, or cock slapping, or spitting, if that's what you both are into.