What used to be considered unusual and fetish is now mainstream and you can hardly find anything that isnt hardcore or pure lack of sexually gratifying acts on the female.

Porn taught me how to masturbate and use my clitoris for pleasure. Do you think most guys are getting any technique out of these videos? There is hardly anything in them that a normal woman would find a real turn on. Being excluded in oral sex, manual stimulation, lack of lubrication, hard pounding in positions that can be very painful with a large penis and the endings usually consisting of facials.

I've been fortunate to only have one guy try to treat me like a porn star. I quickly showered and left his house never to talk to him again. It's one thing in the confounds of a relationship to try different things out and see what works for you, but you honestly cant go into sex expecting a woman to respond to you if you treat her like a cum dumpster at your disposal.

There is already so much men don't understand about the female body and how it works. How many guys here try to tell us that we can all orgasm vaginally and squirt and enjoy anal sex? I see these posts often and i have no doubt many of them are getting their ideas from the fakeness in porn.

Why is there not a huge market for Play Girl or strip clubs with all male dancers? Because women won't pay money to have a guy pretend for 5 minutes that he finds her attractive. Any semi-intelligent male i know in my personal life finds strip clubs to be insulting to their manhood because they don't like someone faking it with them....yet in porn they can be fooled into thinking women are orgasming all the time in them. They get angry when their women don't orgasm from their penis alone or quickly enough for them.

We are setting up a standard here, how we treat people in intimate acts does say a lot about our character. It's one thing to put on a role for a short time, but how many of these guys in porn could care less about making her feel good?

I tried anal things with my husband and he didnt enjoy me stimulating that area at all. I respected that it just wasnt pleasurable. I got nothing out of it if he didn't. So much of our relationship in the bedroom is feeding off of the other persons enjoyment. Maybe thats too normal for today.