I really can't believe you just made fun of him because he was RAPED and then threatened to talk about his DEAD aunt. That's just sick dude, real low. You can't possibly be that inconsiderate. That might be the problem in this situation. You aren't thinking about anybody else but yourself. YOU thought it was in good taste to mock a traumatic moment in his life. Youd didn't take into account the fact that HE might be emotionally scarred from the experience. I'm not going to have a page long argument with you over this because its not worth it but seriously, I hope you realize how damaging your words can be and chose them more carefully. Not everyone is like you. Not everyone thinks like you. Few people can talk about such grave matters in such a cavalier manner and treat them as a joke. Please be sensative to that.