There was this thread What does a woman bring to the table? but it isn't the size queen angle of the OP here.

I think people misunderstand the whole size queen thing. Most women who may claim to be size queens do not actually see size as the be all and end all in a man - it's just a preference.

Maybe we should think of 'size queen' in a more similar way to the way we think of a 'breast man'. 'Breast men' like big tits - but I don't see many threads or posts where a man is accused of dating a woman ONLY for her big breasts and that the woman should be offended because her breasts are the only bit of her he likes. That is nonsense. There may be an initial attraction due to large breasts / a big cock / a particularly delicious ass but that does not mean the relationship that ensues is based ONLY on that initial attraction.

Taking that into account and answering the OP I would say a big cocked man gets quite a lot out of dating a size queen. A size queen (male or female) is going to be less likely to have problems accomodating the large cock, not that a non-size queen is not going to be as good a fuck necessarily but a size queen has a better chance of being a better lay for a big cock sooner - I mean it stands to reason that if a girl, or guy, likes being pounded with a big fat one then the owner of a big fat one gets to do so.