I don't think it works like this for guys. Maybe there are some women who will say straight out, "Don't come knocking on my door unless you're packing", but I haven't encountered them IRL. TBH, I'd probably walk away, that's just a personal attitude.

I am attracted to fun, independent minded women, if they like my cock, then great. They don't always though, but that doesn't have to stop all the fun.