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Originally Posted by SotonDaddy  Keep quiet, and let your friend make the next move. If you haven't spoken to him in a week, wait until he calls, etc. If your friend decides he doesn't want to be your friend any more, then he wasn't a friend to begin with....  |
i'm the one ignoring him, he has tried contacting me plenty of times.. i was just mad at his sudden change in behavior.
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Originally Posted by Phil Ayesho So what?
He knows you're bi and maybe other people know you're bi.. and maybe he just doesn't want anyone else jumping to conclusions about your relationship.
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maybe this is his understated way to let you know that his being cool with your being bi should not be taken as his being cool with you doing something about it with him....
Because, honestly, why did you tell him you were bi?
In my experience, a man telling me he is bi is preparatory to him expressing an interest.
Cut your friend some slack...
After this kind of revelation, it will take some time for him to believe that you are not gonna hit on him... that things between you are not gonna get 'weird'.
Acting all huffy over it is not gonna make you look like you are cool with his discomfort....
Far better to just joke about it.... |
I told him i was bixsual not because i was interested in him., he has a girl friend of 4 yrs. i told him because i wanted him to know not because i wanted to have sex with him..jeeze.
no one knows but me and him so people aren't going assume he's gay because i don't look gay myself.