I can appreciate that you're trying to change your behaviors. But, anyone that I've known that has ever entered a 12-step program describes it more as a cult based on a religion that you may or may one agree with.

I live in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico and there is actually a GENERIC 12-step program available here! Can you stand it? I've been tempted to attend to complain about my addiction to getting upset over wilting tulips. What the hell is a generic 12-step program.

Dude...just kick it or enjoy it...it's only pot and I doubt that this is the reason you've had two career failures. Have you been watching the economy?

Regards.