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Originally Posted by Phil Ayesho 
That you react so negatively to a male perspective is just another example of how women don't really want to hear what men think or feel...
Just another example of how if men don't say and do what women want us to, then we are denigrated and our input dismissed. |
Why are you acting like you are Everyman* and I am Everywoman? What we actually have here is two
people (one male and one female) discussing feelings and relationships - not everything you say, nor all your experience, applies to all men, just as not everything I say, nor all my experience, applies to all women.
I don't react negatively to a
male perspective, in this instance I'm reacting negatively to
your perspective, which I feel is very negative.
I'm glad you have a good relationship with your wife and that she supports you, but that's the first time I've seen you say it - everything else you have posted here has been quite negative.
* I assume you are well read enough to know what I mean by 'Everyman'