Some people here might let this slide by without comment but it's this kind of attitude that really pisses me the fuck off.

Would you also suggest that a straight married couple who don't have an STD between them use condoms for the rest of their lives as well?

If you don't also suggest straight people in a monogomous relationship do the same then you're obviously implying that gay men are a bunch of lying whores.

Either that or you work for a condom making factory.

I've been with my boyfriend for going on eight years and we don't use any condoms and have never had any kind of STD scare. But then, when I call him my boyfriend, I mean that we live together and we're monogomous and there's earned trust. I don't call someone my boyfriend if I just met them five minutes ago at some bar although I know plenty of guys who do.

As someone else said, you just have to be careful (i.e. not fuck like a maniac) and you'll greatly reduce any bleeding or other problems that might be associated with anal sex.

But to suggest (although it was more like you were demanding) that all gay men should use condoms during sex for the rest of their lives even in a truly monogomous relationship is on the hysterical side.

Almost as hysterical as the OP in fact who seems to think fucking an ass is any filthier than fucking a bloody yeasty vagina.