It's a gay thing!

I should clarify; My friend is repeatedly seeing the same married man, not dating (thats so 50's,60's str8--like going steady). They are having a good friendly relationship with great fucking. Neither of them would be upset if this feel apart! Basically they are just enjoying the moment here and now.
I guess my point was that most str8 guys get off and go, most don't realize that they are gay. If you know your gay and admit it why not let the wife go. (pssst! I did)