I've always considered myself a latent-bi. My two experiences with women happened in my mid-twenties, long after I came out gay at the age of 17.

Part of my motivation was curiosity about pussy. Part was my abiding lust for female breasts. I've also always been one to push his boundaries and try to expand my limits.

But I found few women who were truly interested in sex as play: they seemed much more interested in using sex as a way of cementing an emotional commitment, the kind of commitment I had no interest in pursuing with a woman. I am much more interested in connecting emotionally with men.

Who knows how different my life would have been if I'd found a really freaky woman with the right combination of body, attitude and intellect?

And, FWIW, I prefer men who are smaller than I and of medium-to-darker complexions: think Latinos. But I am attracted to taller, athletic, fair women: think German or Scandinavian: not fat, but sturdy.