Penisuer. I made the catch comment, the veracity comment and the other ones.

You have had some very good advice on this thread.

My comments were a reaction to your tone of contempt for your husband even though he is by your own admission a great man in every other respect than sex. The guy puts out for you and your kid, I don't think he deserves your disrespect even on a forum and despite your understandable frustration. Add to this the fact tha he may have a medical condition as well as other issues. He needs your help not your contempt for his manhood. He saved yu from an abusive relationship and now that he needs your help, you abuse him.

I just wanted to make sure that you were being straight about the situation, hence veracity. So get yourself a bullet to take the edge off yourself and support your husband as he supported you. FWIW, I have sympathy for you, but get yourself a plan to deal with it now you have had your rant.