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Old 04-29-2008   #16 (permalink)
njqt466
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Originally Posted by Joseph View Post
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I saw a commercial where a guy wanted anal sex with his girlfriend, but like most girls, she didn't want to
JC what the hell kind of commercials are they showing in Poland? What were they trying to sell?
*SNIP*
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but here for once it turns out that the girl had some wishes the guy didn't like, but he did it for her.
Once, big deal. Men are relentless when they want some non-vanilla sex; and God forbid you give in once, then they say, "well you did it that one time so you can do it again."


And here pops my question: Guys want anal or oral sex, but how does the thing look on the other side? What do you girls want from a guy, which he might not like? I'm really curious what that might be....
You must be a math major. There is no set formulaic approach that will work with every woman on the planet.

At this point I want a man who doesn't lie, play 'head games', or need a woman who is nothing more than arm candy so that he can feel better about himself.


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Originally Posted by Rugbypup View Post
shoes and chocolate, everything else is secondary to a woman, lol
I'd love to debunk this, but I can't. Ideally a man should present me with beautiful designer shoes and chocolates . . .before and after sex.


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Originally Posted by ManlyBanisters View Post
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Why would I want my partner to do something he doesn't like?
Must be a guy thing.
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Originally Posted by ManlyBanisters View Post

It is rare that I am ambivalent about a sexual act - If I found one I was ambivalent about I might do it anyway if my man was really into, because I get off on giving him pleasure. If I actively disliked something I wouldn't do it - regardless. For example, ATM - no way. Sucking cock after fucking is fine, I like the taste of my pussy on his cock - but not after anal. Fortunately he feels the same about it.
Thank God, I have never encountered a man who desired ATM.

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Originally Posted by ManlyBanisters View Post
Ah, I thought I had phrased that ambiguously. No, I expect it doesn't taste bad (I've never actually done it so I can't speak from experience) - my comments on taste were only related to liking the taste of my pussy on his cock. With ATM, it is more the concept of potential germ / bacteria transfer that neither of us can get our heads around. It could taste like pumpkin pie and I still wouldn't ATM. I'm not having a go at anyone who does ATM, each to their own - I just know I can't find it anything but a turn off.
I understood you and I agree with you 100%, ATM is not my thing. Given that I abhor pumpkin pie and all pumpkin flavored desserts the thought of a lovers penis tasting like that particular confection is even more disturbing.


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Originally Posted by dolfette View Post
women aren't generic. we all want different things.
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but...anyone who pesters a lover to do something they dislike needs stabbing in both eyes
My feelings exactly.