I have no problem with gays...
BUT....
I can't abide campness.
Yet my only gay experience (where I shared a bed with a guy and sucked him to completion and also indulged in other activities

) was at my direction.
I was a lot younger than I am now and hitched a lift.
The guy who gave me a lift gave out no homo vibes at all and it was ME who decided I wanted to explore (I was very drunk) and adopted an effeminate slant on my voice as i talked with him.
Needless to say, rather than taking me home he took me to his home.
Yet even after that admission, I have to say that nothing would turn me off a guy more quickly than if he acted like a wannabee girl.
Seems that's pretty much all you need to do to succeed in the media &/or get your own chat show, these days.