Thank you everyone for the suggestions.

I will try to explain it best I can. The viagra did help, but our insurance stopped covering it so its like 80 bux for a bottle we used to get.

He never was an overtly sexual person, we have had decent sex but I just assumed over time he would learn to be more sexual, what an idiot I am.

A little background on dh;
He married me when he was 46 two and a half years ago(his first marriage, my second), and we both wanted a baby together as he was not getting any younger. He was completely obsessed with the idea of being a daddy finally after all those years. We got pg 6 months after we married and our daugther was born 3/31/07. He was absolutley overjoyed with her but it seemed after she was born, she became his total focus in life. Isn't that supposed to be a womans thing? I mean I wanted to start screwing again two weeks after I had her.
We almost lost her when she was 7 months old, and now he immensly overprotective of her. She still shares our room. Any little noise she makes, he freaks, and if shes quiet, he freaks. I love our baby girl too but shes ok now and healthy and I want our marriage back! All he ever talks about is having babies, more and more and quite frankly, I want only one more! Hes like a woman, seems like his main focus is babymaking and I am a woman, not a baby factory.
It is so weird, it seems like I should have been the man and he should have been the woman.

Hes just one of those really mellow, everyones 'big brother' type. The big teddy bear, the cuddler.
Me I am very sexual, have always been. He 'rescued' me from a horribly abuse to the point of almost killing me, first husband and my kids from that marriage. I looked at him as a hero for so long.

We have periods of good (well as good as it can get with an old-fashioned pushing 50 Catholic man) and bad sex and right now we seem to be in one of those bad periods and it is killing me because I want it more and more! I am 33 and am peaking!

Hell, I do not want to cheat on him, he is a sweetheart and he is good to me and we have a wonderful marriage in every single other aspect but this is killing me!

Keep the suggestions coming!