I had anal with an exgirlfriend of mine and I was young and dumb and high and just stuck it in; now I am older and know the Proper way to introduce someone to anal; you must give them anal play with the fingers first and get them to relax and slide in very slowly and use lots of lube and don't go too hard, just nice and slow unless of course the reciever wants it rougher; a lot of women have better orgasms from anal; I thought it was ok and fun to try; I will give anything a try (with a female of course) in bed as I am open minded and love sex.