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Originally Posted by fak_et  I DID NOT ASK FOR AN ETHICS DEBATE, SHEESH!!!!
I wanted some tips on pace, how long should aim to last, anything to do in the meantime, positions to start with, etc.
pronatalist, it is biased people like you with closed minds that got me where i am today. I am stuck in a sexual society with no clue what is going on. I have come leaps and bounds to catch up.
Maybe a monogamous world where sex is used for the sole purpose of reproduction would be good but it simply is not realistic in this day and age due to many societal factors.
I have went to college and got away from my roots to have a complete mindset change and a realization how different the world is from what i thought.
Bottom line, this guy right here who has turned down multiple sex opportunities would like to give it a shot and see what it is like. I am a great looking social guy who's never had problems getting girls but had some mental barriers here.
I have certain needs, I need to take care of and with my mindset and career pathway, i dont plan on getting married for another 10 years at least.
Sexual relief is a necessity in life right along with food, water, and sleep.
Dont waste another post debating, i am not gonna listen, I just want some help from some people with experience so that im not going into this completely confused. |
Alright my darling.....is she a virgin as well? You are a girthy guy so if she hasnt had sex in a while its probably going to be a little painful for her. So i wouldnt aim to last a while. Honestly, i think people put too much priority on lasting forever. I like a good 10 minutes of intense penetration because it doesnt get me too sore. Some women like a little longer. But most women dont like to have their brains pounded out for an hour!
Also, do you know much about oral sex and female orgasm? If so, that would be a great thing to initiate first. Do you last a long time when you masturbate or do you edge for a while?