Invisibleman, its men like you that have a frequency of reason that i can tap into. I find women attractive and in my underage days i did a lot of things behind closed doors with them. I don't have much of a desire to sleep with them today. I can totally appreciate the female body and sexuality. If i were strictly a lesbian i could look at beautiful women but it would never occur to me to try to get them inebriated and sleep with them to prove some point to myself.

I find it very egotistical and selfish to take someone out of their comfortable element and try to turn them over to my side or make them "try" out my orientation for my personal benefit. I don't think its just about feeling pleasure, there is psychology and possible damage that can occur to the person if they felt pressured to do something that they truly didnt want to do. They might otherwise not do it if they werent drugged up or drunk. It's like getting a woman drunk and pressuring her to have a threesome because she didn't want to do it sober.

Call me nuts for reading more into this than i should. I don't think anyone has the right to push themselves onto drunk people because they've been waiting for their guard to be let down. There is nothing wrong with being straight and maybe some gays have a problem with someone not trying out being gay before deciding on their sexual orientation. Or maybe they get this exhiliration that the person is giving in to them so they must be special.

Who the hell knows, but i'm all for respecting all orientations and not truly attracted to anyone who isnt attracted to me