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Originally Posted by marleyisalegend  that's the exact same sentiment i was trying to express. i've never heard a white person say "oh my god i had a wonderful date with this white guy last night". i too don't understand the need to separate races (well, only outside races) when telling a story. like i said many black people on this site have sent me PM's telling me they feel the same way, like their blackness is objectified but many white people constantly respond as if i'm speaking spanish gibberish. i guess its this easy: those that understand empathize, those that don't make jokes and act as if what i'm saying is irrelevant, as irrelevant to them as pointing out race is to me |
this is clearly very hard for you to grasp isnt it?
if i was in AFRICA , and dating some local girl... shed say "yea i went on a date with this nice WHITE boy lastnight"
same thing..
im a minority there
they are minorities here
most of us mean NOTHING by it, but since ther are so few where alot of us live... its uncommon to see them.. just like if i went walking through black neighborhood in harlem... theyd say HEY WHITE BOY... no harm done..but the truth is id probably get robbed and beat just for being white in their neighborhood, just like some black people would be robbed and beat for goin to the wrong white areas, it works both ways, its a cruel world, welcome to reality