Mademoiselle Rouge
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Also, i have been able to orgasm a handful of times during sex by using my vibrator on my clit. Honestly its so difficult to concentrate on the thrusting and the clitoris at the same time because he's so girthy. There is brain concentration needed to built up to the orgasm and when im feeling my vaginal walls get stretched to the max, its very difficult to feel the sensations on my clit enough to get to orgasm, even though it does feel good just not enough to push me over the edge.
If this doesn't explain thoroughly the reasons why I, and many other women cant do it and that its not that we simply choose not to let loose and relax enough to let it happen. There is no way you could please a partner of this variety if you can't accept these things.
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First if I have offended anyone I am sorry, my intentions were not to make anyone feel bad or make them out to be deficient in any way shape or form.
MR the section I have quoted is something I think you need to read again yourself. You are controlling the vibrator on your clit and YOU can't make yourself orgasm during sex because why? You said it takes concentration to push yourself over the edge due to his girth and its very hard for you to climax during this. I completely understand this; if I was a girl I could see this being a problem....but....its not a physical problem; you just mentioned a psychological problem. I agree that not every woman is the same and I do know enough about the female anatomy to understand the functions of the clitoris just as I understand the importance of tenting.
Everybody has it in them to orgasm through NO stimulation; so I really don't want to hear about "only this kind of stimulation can get me off because its biological" I CANT get off in many ways but that doesn't mean I'm not capable through meditation, breathing exersises or god knows what else (even though I haven't). EVERYTHING is mental, amputees feeling ghost pains is mental, nocturnal emissions are mental, crying is mental and males can get errect just by thinking of sexual thoughts etc etc. I thought of all people more women would understand that sex is just as much mental as it is physical. Yet without any mental control physical stimulation could never get anybody off.
So my final argument is this, as long as your enjoying the sex life you have then don't worry if anything is wrong with you physically or mentaly, don't let anyone else tell you otherwise. Yet if your frustrated because only certain stimulation can get you to orgasm then don't place that burden on your partner or your body as it is a pyschological problem and nothing else. Everybody has it in them to achieve orgasm through no stimulation, so with that even minor stimulation is enough to achieve orgasm. This is why some women can orgasm through nipple play and others cannot. This is why some woman can orgasm through masturbation but nothing else. This is why some woman can orgasm through vaginal intercourse and others cannot. MR said every woman is wired differently when it comes to thier nerves, clitoris hood etc etc. I agree but all that wiring is controlled by one thing, your nerves send those impulses to one thing and as what has already been said a million times before....."Your brain is your biggest sex organ"
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