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Old 04-19-2008   #28 (permalink)
kooperfan
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Originally Posted by Starboy28 View Post
Recently my 14 year old son came out to spend a couple of weeks with me during Easter break. We were taking a road trip one day and stopped to go to use the rest room. While I was using the restroom I glanced over and saw my son obviously staring at my dick. I chose to ignore the situation and finished my business. A few days later we were showering together after swimming at the gym and I caught him staring at me again. After we left I asked him if there was anything he wanted to talk to me about and got no response. I've always been very open about sex with him and nudity is quite common around my home; we showered together up until he was eight or nine. He started puberty quite young and we had a couple of great talks about the changes taking place and becoming a man so these are things he is quite comfortable discussing and things we have talked about in the past.

He's coming out to spend the summer with me. I don't want to make an issue of this but I wondering what is the best way to handle my concern about this change in behavior. Has anyone else encountered a similar situation?
An educated guess, it's curiosity, he probably wonders what he may be meant to look like.
also does he know your gay? it has been seen amongst humans that they may act a certain way to see a response. But you remember how this time was, you wonder if your too small or too big or whatever and you need a guideline if you will. ignore it, it will roll over.