View Single Post
Old 04-19-2008   #31 (permalink)
kirbster
kirbster is offline

Quote:
Originally Posted by spunkyboy2008 View Post
Yeah that's bad, there are some a*seholes who get off on trying to shove their cock as hard as they can into a new bottom and hurt him. They're idiotsbut there seem to be quite a few about it seems.

However, it can also happen if it's the top's first time too or he isn't very experienced either. Unfortunately I've been like that too. My first experiences were with an older and much more experienced guy (later I realised half the gay and bi guys in the area had fucked him). After that I met an 18 year old guy who hadn't bottomed before, we got on really well and were both very keen, I didn't mean to hurt him but as you can imagine when I tried what the other guy had liked on him it wasn't good. Seems obvious now that was stupid, but it wasn't at the time.
Just proves that communication between top and bottom is essential!

Even after I became an experienced bottom, I once had a guy with a good size cock just shove it in my ass without any consideration for me at all. I screamed out in pain and threw him out of my house. There's no excuse for that type of behavior (unless of course that was what was mutually desired) and no way was he going to get another chance at my ass!