MR, you don't have to defend yourself. You know your body better than anyone else, and if you can't orgasm through intercourse and it doesn't bother you, don't let anyone make you feel deficient for that. I have wonderful orgasms through intercourse, but I am not multi-orgasmic. It's how I'm wired, and I've tried to have more than one, but I just can't. I don't worry about it so much anymore. I have one and I'm done both physically and psychologically. It's like my libido just shuts off after one orgasm. I've given up on trying to live up to people's expectations of how a woman should respond sexually. There are really only two people who should care anyway, and that's me and my partner. If I'm with a partner who can't accept the way I am, then I shouldn't be with that person.

Here's another thing-- I have intercourse orgasms mostly from clitoral and clitoral/gspot/vaginal stimulation during intercourse. This quasi-Freudian bullshit about the importance of g-spot, vaginal, cervical, uterine, ovarian, and fallopian orgasms is bullshit and it gets on my nerves. An orgasm is an orgasm. One isn't superior to another.