ITA with Mushroom Maniac...

When I was in my early 20's I had much more random orgasms, actually did not come from oral sex and only once in awhile on top. (This waS partially psychological partially lack of experience I believe.) Now (early 30's now) I almost always come during sex when I'm on top, often from oral sex (although not always) I would love to come in other positions...sometimes it seems I am close but it hasn't happened. One thing I don't like though...is if I don't come sometimes, let it go. It's ok and it's not a personal statement against my man. I hate pressure to come..like MM said, I'd rather relax and enjoy it and if I get an orgasm, great, if not that's Ok...if I want to try more, I will let you know!

Point being, some of it may be age, experience and personal feelings on the matter. You're really doing well being patient!