04-18-2008
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Originally Posted by 007baby  Thanks Ms Teacher. I'm accepting that it's not entirely up to me for someone to orgasm. I'll always be patient, and I wouldn't get frustrated in front of her. I just want to make sure I'm doing everything I can, I mean I'll bend over backwards to give a lady an orgasm somehow. And it's not problem orally with her, I guess, I just wish my partner was vaginally or G-spot orgasmic b/c she's really the only person I've been with...Could it be her age too? She's only 21, and I'm 22. I heard women in general can develope later than men as far as being in tuned with themselves and their sexuality. I'm hoping that's it, and that I will giver an orgasm through intercourse some day soon. Modesty aside, I last long, I pump hard and slow depending on what she wants, and I'm endowed...I admit, that part of my frustration is feeling a bit inadequate for this...but like I said I'm going to stay patient and who knows how many more partners I'll have in my life, maybe none (in which case I hope she becomes vaginally orgasmic badly), anywho, thanks for the feedback guys.  | You hit the nail right on the head! It is absolutely about how young you both are! When I was her age, I could climax during intercourse but only in the missionary position with my legs so close together that my partner was sometime forced up and out. Obviously, I needed his pelvis to grind against my mons & clit. As I approached thirty, I had enough confidence to teach my lover to get me off manually first, with my legs mostly closed. After that, missionary-style intercourse with legs mostly closed would produce the rest of my orgasms. At thirty, after I'd had my baby, I was finally able to enjoy doggy-style without any pain or fear of pain. This is when I discovered my G-spot... Suffice it to say, now that I am nearing 45, I can say that over the last ten years, I've climaxed maybe ten times from oral, about a dozen with me on top, and one precious time doing doggy. The most important thing I've learned since I began having sex at 15, is if I want to be able to climax in more than just one way, I have to relax and just enjoy the ride, orgasmic or not. I can do this because I trust my partner to give me at least four orgasms manually afterwards if I don't happen to catch any during sex. With the "performance pressure" off of me, I can relax and enjoy all the different sensations that often result in finding new methods of orgasm. So many girls at her age are still "pre-orgasmic" and not able to climax with a partner at all (or have not yet had their first orgasm), that you should really be celebrating each one of hers that she has by whatever means. She will continue to develop at her own pace for at least 25 more years. Either that or starting hitting up the MILF crowd... |
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