The other folks here have already hit the technical bits, so I'll just add a perspective that I keep in mind...my shape.
I have a fairly strong upward curve to my cock, so if I'm trying to give the Mrs. a really good g-spot orgasm I use that to my advantage. Depending on how you're shaped, try to pick a position that really puts direct friction on her spot...the ones that've always worked best for me are variations on the "bridge" position. She's on her back with a pillow under her hips to lift and tilt them upward...I'm either facing her on my knees, or standing if she's on the edge of the bed. After penetrating her, I'll lean back and use fairly short thrusts with a bit more than half my length. This position, plus my upward curve rubs the knob of my cock directly against her g-spot...the effect is immediate, and her first orgasm usually doesn't take long to reach. And like DF mentioned, it puts her in a plateau where she keeps coming over and over...usually, she'll push me away when she can't take anymore.
So take a good look at which way you bend or curve and pick a position that makes sure you hit her spots with every motion. |