Thread: I haven't been laid in 4 years. 22/m
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Old 04-17-2008   #3 (permalink)
njqt466
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Originally Posted by sn86 View Post
I'm 22, haven't been laid in 4 years now. No clue why--I'm a decent looking guy I think (hi ladies how's it going haha) but I'm beginning to think I'm afraid of being sexually active again. I was in high school for 6 months (lost my virginity in senior year), but we were just fuck buddies I guess.

We "broke up", and I haven't gotten back on the horse yet...or she hasn't gotten back on me I should say. PLENTY of opportunities, but each time I turn down the girl. I've resorted to lots more jerking off, I've even showed my goods for a lady on this site, but it was at her request.

I'm not into men, but I just don't get what my deal is. Committment issues? There such thing as a phobea of intimacy? Someone help. A girl's advice would help. PM if you want... I got one hell of a story that goes with it if interested. :)

Any suggestions? Should I just relieve this dry spell or wait for something more since I've waited so long anyway?
Interesting, you have had opportunities and turned them down. Was it because you didn't feel an emotional connection to these girls? Cause that is normal. Some men actually need to feel like they are in love to have sex. There is nothing wrong with that.

Worst case scenario is that you are a sexual anorexic; this is highly unlikely. I think it's more likely you want to have a girlfriend and not just a fuck buddy.