no, but wearing a blue t-shirt is. do you understand what i'm saying?? i agree with you a hundred percent, i'm trying to explain/understand the other side. from a christian perspective and i'm only speculating, you can have all the desires you want about men but being gay isn't defined by that so much as by pursuing the lifestyle. i guess some religious fanatics view gay as more of a lifestyle than a sexuality because how many catholics have you heard refer to their predatory priests as gay?? none that i can think of, because i think their point of view about "gay" is that it's a choice in the sense of choosing to go to gay clubs, choosing to sleep with men, choosing to act on something you can't control is still a choice