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Originally Posted by marleyisalegend  <...>
i think another perspective that mainstream and especially religion tries to imply is that gay as a choice means to act on your desires, which can be considered a choice. if that's the case, you can have homosexual desires and not be gay if you don't choose to act on those desires |
But again, this is confusing the orientation with the behavior. That logic breaks down if you think about it rationally. By those standards, a straight man is asexual in between fucks, right? If he fucks a woman at 8:00 in the morning, then again at 2:00 in the afternoon, if he's not fucking in between those times, he's asexual? The behavior does not necessarily define the orientation.