i hate when that happens because i like to pound girls hard, but ive found several girls where every time i had sex with them the only thing that was on my mind was whether they were in pain or not. i dont like hurting girls, it fucks with my head whenever it happens, because usually im not even going hard at all and some girls scream "OOWWWW!!!". i once dated a girl for a year and a half and we RARELY had good sex because i was too big (or she was too small, depends on how u see it) for her. sex usually ended with me apologizing and feeling bad that her vag was in pain. luckily, now i am aware that i have a big cock. back then i was young n dumb and had no idea i was so big.