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Old 04-13-2008   #9 (permalink)
Starboy28
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Originally Posted by EBlend View Post
I'd agree. I remember being a teenager and worrying whether I was developing "normally." He might just be checking to see if he looks "right." I remember having a lot of anxiety about that. I also remember wondering a lot if I was just too small, and eventually found out I am on the large side. Do you think he could just be dealing with normal adolescent anxiety and trying to compare? Perhaps if that's the issue and you tried to get him to talk about it, he might be feeling too embarrassed to talk about it. . .? Perhaps if he keeps doing it, you could gently ask him that very question, but gently; and if that IS the problem, maybe he'd say so with a more direct approach. If that's not the problem, I'd guess there'd be no harm done if you ask in a kind way.
Thanks your advice is good. He is quite large for his age--nearly as large as I am. He had anxiety in the past about being too large from all the teasing he took in the locker room. As I stated in my original post, he started developing quite young so he is on the fast track there.