ya know what yeah it is a very hard thing to leave/divorce the person that u thought that u would spend the rest of ur life with but a person can only take so much physical, emotionally, and mentally. There i no point in stayin in a relationship when it is obviously one sided. Iv been there i know. you try so hard to make things work and no matter how many things you do ad how good u do them its not goin to change. so whats the point in draging it out?