ya know what u seem like a really nice guy like i said b4, but it also seems as though and i could be way off here but it seems as though u might have some self esteem issues, just a shot in the dark here. i say this because i really dont know that many or anyone for that matter who would stay in this kind of relationship and give her oral and recieve absolutily nothing in return. and i dont mean this mean in any means i really dont im just wondering. and if that is the case get a divorce get ur shit together and find someone and go to town.