Oh boy!!!

Edman and Hellboy0 - room in that boat for another one please?


I don't have the answer either, though would say to you Edman, you're right to be addressing this now, i.e. sooner rather than later, as it shan't change.

I decided after 3 - 4 years that the relationship with the person you love is more important than sex, if they hate it and won't have it.

Turns out, 15 years down the line, you are still in the same boat but liking the person a lot less, resenting them, feeling as frustrated as anything and also that its not just sex missing now, but intimacy, communication, understanding etc etc.

Basically it's all gone down the toilet!

Please don't waste a decade proving yourself right!