Originally Posted by naughty

Edman,Not knowing all the issues here I am not going to label your partner. Perhaps she may be depressed or depending upon her age suffering from the effects of perimenopause. Lack of desire, dryness, mood swings are all part of that. I applaud you for trying to be patient. I do agree that she should realize that even though she may not be feeling it, you are and that out of love and concern for you she might need to be a bit more creative. Sometimes people are so exhausted they cant even think about anything else. COuld that be the problem? For women sex doesnt usually start in the bed room. It may be that you need to make it an all day thing little ways in which you show her you care that may bring big dividends. Maybe I am crazy but the biggest turn on for me would be to see the undeniable signs of pleasure on the face of the man I loved but then that would just be me, right? Let her know that her vagina is not the only place love can be made there are hands breasts and mouths that can do amazing things.