dude, you gotta make a move. waiting for a girl to make a move takes forever, unless shes drunk or a slut, and many times doesnt work. most girls like the guy to take charge and make a move, they will wait, but they wont wait forever. rejection is nothing to fear, neither is sex. honestly, for me at least, sex really isnt that big a deal. its not a special connection between 2 people, just another perk of being alive.

and dont worry about your size, we have the same measurements, some girls love it, some girls want it as far away from them as possible. being that youre 31, most women you meet would probably be thrilled to have a big cock. when youre looking for women, dont do it just to get laid. they can tell. in my experience, whenever ive gone out lookin for pussy, i rarely get it. but when im just out with my friends havin a good time and pussy isnt on my mind, thats when all the magic seems to happen. stop worrying and start doing. thats my 2 cents