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Originally Posted by bguy  What I'm learning now is that you have to base your confidence on how good you feel about yourself and not so much how others feel about you. My self-worth was shattered by years of rejection. But now I know it wasn't a problem with me but with my wife.
I suspect something awful happened to her before I met her and she hasn't been able to deal with it. It's unfortunate that she chose to ignore and run away from her issues, rather than work on them with me. But I think I'll be a lot better off in the long run. |
i understand, but it's not your fault your ex-wife was such a crappy spouse. i honestly don't believe you did anything wrong in this marriage because you tried your best to make it work.
have you come to a decision about what you want to do yet? give us an update!!
p/s my offer is still on the table if you come to LA
