I'm 38 and a virgin... well with women! I love women don't get me wrong I just don't want to sleep with them!

As to this guys situation, Dolfette has spoken the wisest of any so far. You sound like a genuine guy, thats way more important than what you do in bed, compitance comes with experiance and trust MAINLY trust. I think you'll do fine. Good luck mate.
Sammy